IS BEING A VIRGIN A CURSE?

A very Good Day to you Dearest captain of the most powerful ship, mightier than the TITANIC.
How is work, family and life generally for you? I Hope all is well.
Captain, I want to ask if being a virgin these days and in this generation is a curse or something bad.
I am in my late twenties and any relationship I start, when the man makes advances and I pleadingly let him know, the next thing is that he goes away.
I have vowed to keep myself for my husband only, But my Resolve is gradually Corroding since I would want to settle down, captain, from the glances I receive while walking on the street, and people’s estimation, I am an Attractive person, but my situation makes me think otherwise.
I even nursed thoughts about going to the convent to become a reverend sister since I am a catholic.
My dear captain, Together with the honorable, wise, efficient and intelligent Brothers and sisters of mine ( THE D.T.F ), I await humbly your take on this issue ( or should I call it a dilemma? ) which affects me and weighs me down. Thanks a million for the expected healing of a broken heart. (LIDIYA )

AM CONFUSED PLS HELP!!!

 i must compliment you guys for a wonderful job of mending the broken hearts, this program has truly been a source of up-liftment to many.
It is on this note that I write regarding the Challenge am facing.
My name is J.M, There is this girl I met five months ago, she assured me then that she had no one. but I later realized that she was seeing her EX,I confronted her to decided between I and this Ex of hers, else I will quit the relationship, Because I am someone who hates double dating, But she Told me that I shouldn`t bother, that it`s going to end.
The problem now is that ,those guy Craftily tarnished my image before her, showing her only God knows how text messages that are so full of insults, and said I sent them to him.
The story kept me confused because I have never met this guy, I don’t know him, talk more of his phone number. And even I do, of what importance is it for me harassing him?
Another funny thing is that my girl seems to trust this guy cos she looked very serious when she was telling all this to me.
Now what Should I do? I know in me that despite all this, she still have some regards for me but how can I continue with her when this other guy is there? Can I coupe up with his antics? Deep within me I Love her, but, to what extend should I ignore him? That is if I shouldn`t quit, at the moment I have kept a bit distant from her, so help me please!!!

 My Dear Captain I hope you and your family, and the dream team family are all in good health. I do admire your program me a lot and also the way you and the D.T.F responds to matter’s of the heart, May God continue to give you more wisdom as to carry on the task of bringing people together  

                 
 I met a lady in 2006, we Loved each other so much and everything was just perfect, we decided to stay together forever, for that we both agreed to go into a covenant (Blood Covenant) to be one body, one soul and one spirit, so that Northing can come between us except death.  We swore, took an oath with our blood and also placed a curse on any one of us who violates this sacred oath. This was also in a written format which was signed by the blood of the two of us, we also licked the blood after the signing, after that we brought our families together and both were happy for us, After sometimes I began to notice some changes in her, she’s no longer the woman I use to know, she started disassociating her self from me, she no longer comes around, I started seeing her with different kinds of men at every point in time, every time I  accuse her she always denies it not until when I caught her red-handed. She then confessed that she’s seeing another man and that she’s no longer interested in our relationship that she’s getting married come April 2010. After seeing her through school and even helped to secure her a job, now she’s telling me to leave her alone.
       Please what can I do?
        I still love her, what is going to happen to me?
       To us?
      What about the blood oath?
      The term and conditions were no going back till DEATH!!!

A Letter from one of our members

Good evening captain fresh
i hope you,your family and the dream team family
are fine.
i have been an ardent listener of the programme keeping intouch
but this is my first time of writing in.


My name is Mike i live in Kaduna state (NIGERIA)
Am in this relationship with a girl called Mary,
Mary is 24,while am 29, she is tall, beautifull,intelligent and love to party alot,
she Drinks and keep company of guys as her friends.
My problem is i never get to spent quite ,oments with her, is either
She is busy answering calls from her friends (boys) or drinking and sleeping
afterwards.
This always make me sad and angry, she cancelles appointments on dying
minutes,keeps giving me filmsy excuses,
then i realised that she lies alot.
Capt fresh, The D.T.F please advice me on what to do, How
long can i endure this pain?
I really love her and want to change her, and possibly spend the rest of my life with her.
I actually met her at a birthday party, she`s a student of kaduna poly-technic.

Thank you
MIKE
kaduna state